What do you “require” before sex, as foreplay?

10 comments

1. Consent and someone who respects the word no

2. There’s nothing I can “require” because sex acts aren’t something you can insist on, ‘cause consent, etc.

   But the main things for me are:

   * an intellectual connection, good banter, similar sense of humor, etc.
   * trust, comfort, a sense of safety
   * enthusiastic oral sex that lasts more than a couple of minutes

   If I don’t have these things with a person then I probably won’t want to have sex with them again.

3. Seriously all my husband has to do is touch me with those strong veiny hands and I am ready to go. We have an amazingly awesome sex life with lots of foreplay, afterplay and intimacy. But just the way he touches me is all I need.

4. A willing, exuberant and horny girl

5. Being turned on at least like a little bit is like the bare minimum but what I prefer is plenty of teasing, taunting, being threatened till I’m all wound up hefore we start

6. Marriage

7. A little bit of lube to get things started. Having kids changed my body a lot

8. Going down on him is a must. I love it and it turns me on to see how much he enjoys it.

9. head and Chinese takeout

10. Clean teeth fresh breath and a clean peen.