Advice needed
My fiancé (M21) and me (F21) are having sexual issues. I am not wanting anything sexual cause he’s to rough or it burns, or doesn’t feel good for me. (I have a history of UTIs and some other health issues) I make him orgasm nightly while he watches porn. I want to come up with something where I can get pleasure as well. Also we are both submissive and want to be dominated by each other. We’ve been stuck on how to fix this situation for almost a year now. We are both not happy sexually. I also do not want to include any other people. Any advice??
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“I am not wanting anything sexual cause he’s to rough or it burns, or doesn’t feel good for me.”
” I make him orgasm nightly…I want to come up with something where I can get pleasure…”
“We’ve been stuck on how to fix this situation for almost a year now. We are both not happy sexually.”
Sometimes people simply are *not* sexually compatible. A year of *frustration* is a long time.
Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine.
Ideally you want to find someone who already is what you want in a partner/lover.
The goal is to find a “soulmate” not a cellmate.
No one is “stuck” with anyone. Suffering is optional.
When you realize someone is *unable/unwilling* to meet your needs it’s usually best to move on.
***“Never allow waiting to become a habit. Live your dreams and take risks. Life is happening now.”*** ~Paulo Coelho
***”Dating is primarily a numbers game…. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.”*** – Henry Cloud
Best wishes!