a month ago i met a guy, and we immediately hit it off. we had so much in common, we slept together on the first date, had a great time, and for the first week and a half we were seeing each other every other day, he introduced me to his friends and brought me to an event with him, and didn’t shy away from PDA with me when with his friends. we both got busy, he asked to hang out and then cancelled last minute, then i got busy and we couldn’t find a good time to see each other for a week. the week after i asked to see him (as the week before he had asked) he asked what days i was free and that he would let me know when we should meet but never set up a date. essentially three weeks passes, we were still texting every day, just hadn’t seen each other irl for all that time. three days ago we went to the same event (separately) and we said hello, hugged, and only briefly talked a couple times during the night. he hasn’t texted me since. i can’t figure out if he’s just not interested in me anymore or if i should maybe text him first? i don’t understand why he would still keep texting me every day multiple times a day for three weeks if he just didn’t like me, but also, he hasn’t made plans to see me so i really don’t understand, any advice?
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You could ask him ( and risk being hurt if he was trying to let you down ) or ideally leave it now to him and stop texting. Eventually he will get back in touch and tell you or just act normal. Or he may not do either, this dating business is rather cruel and often controlled by one person towards another. You have better things to do with your time so best to walk away and get on with your stuff.