Hi Guys,
Nearly lost my V card to a girl yday but I couldn’t penetrate her. This came down to two problems. Firstly when I put the condom on my piece it would go soft, i’ve heard this is due to performance anxiety but I was honestly confident throughout the whole ordeal. After the first failed attempt I used my fingers on her then after some more kissing etc. I tried again. This time I put on the condom and I think I was hard enough to the level that I normally get to when I masturbate at home however when I tried to put it in it just coudln’t enter.
Now I’m worried that I can’t get hard enough to penetrate, is this something that I should get checked out by the doctors? For context I do use deathgrip masturbation from time to time so maybe that’s the issue? Would love to hear from you guys’ experiences what happened and how I can fix this problem.
Thanks!
4 comments
This is a common experience I think, both you might be not as hard because you’re nervous but also if she is also inexperienced she might be scared of pain, her body tensing up and pushing you out without even realizing it.
If she’s not a virgin let her hop on top and let gravity help you out.
No, but was she also a virgin? It’s normal what’s happening to you, but you should have sex with someone who is good at it and she will guide you though and show you what to do.
It’s normal, dude. You may *think* you were
>confident throughout the whole ordeal
But that’s as much active conscious thought as it is subconscious where you have no control.
Relax and it’ll happen when it’s meant to. It’s super easy to put so much pressure on yourself and on the moment that things just fail to fire. When it’s right you will be fully in the moment and relaxed and ready to roll.