I love my partner and he loves me. I have some kinks. I want to be tied up. I want to be spanked (gently). I want him to finish on my face…..among other things. I’m very submissive in bed (notsomuch outside the bedroom) He used to talk about these things but when I told him I was into it he got shy. He told me he didn’t want to disrespect me. I told him he’s not—it’s with my consent. It’s role play and I love it. How do I get him past this???
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You can try dipping a toe in with small things. Some spanks during doggy. Call and response dirty talk. Watching porn together that depicts the things you like.
Ultimately, if it’s not for him then that’s that. A lot of time vanilla partners just can. Or, he might be a little subby himself and doesn’t really have it in him.
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