So this is a long story but I will try to keep it brief. My ex and I broke up years ago because he would not stop talking about his ex girlfriend. We stopped talking for a year after that but eventually started talking again. We both still love each other and he wants to get back together, but I told him I need to see change and I need to know he is not still thinking about people from his past or doing shady things behind my back. Today I was on his computer and found several pictures of two of his ex girlfriends. One he has not dated in 10 years, the other 6 or 7. In two of the pictures, one of his exes is half naked…basically standing in front of a mirror and taking a picture of her ass. Do I have the right to be upset and confront him about this? We technically are not together, but he swears he is “solely devoted” to me and doesn’t want anyone else and is willing to do anything I need him to do in order for us to be together again. So it seems shady that he would still keep them.
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People who go through others’ pics care more about those pictures than the ppl who keep them imo lmao
Not at all. It’s literally none of your business.
If he was devoted and wanted to seriously be with you he would delete them.. and forget them
Here’s what I think.
If it was previously a point of contention between you two that he would continuously speak of his ex, causing you to split, why would he have these pictures after all this time?
Doesn’t make sense to me. People can say “oh it doesn’t matter. It isn’t your business blah blah blah”
It certainly is if there’s history with this kind of problem where he can’t let his ex go. Having nude or inappropriate pictures of an ex while in another relationship is just gross, like there’s no reason to keep those kinds of pictures when with someone else.
At least they weren’t videos.
When my now husband and I had been living together for several years he asked me to go to his toolbox and bring him electrical tape. He’s a mechanic so he has a huge toolbox with a work area and a hutch on top. The left side of the hutch was where I found the tape…I looked to the right side and directly into a pic of his ex wife bent over in booty shorts. I threw a major fit, they had been divorced for at least 7 years at that point. I had to take him and show him the picture, he literally never used that side of the hutch and had several pics and papers tacked in there. He got rid of it right then. Maybe your guy just didn’t bother going through everything to remove the pictures, try asking him before being mad.
Thanks guys. It’s just really hard when we act like a couple and he tells me he views me as his girlfriend. Yesterday he is telling me he wants to marry me and today I see that..and to realize that he had some of those pictures when we were together initially and still has them now just hurts.