Men with ugly daughters, what do you say if your daughter asks if she is ugly?

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1. then i would tell her that yes she is and we are sorry it worked out that way. /s

   of course we wouldn’t say that. we would support her and tell her that she is not that and help her try to get self confidence so she does not stress over stupid crap.

2. Ask your parents and see what they say

3. I would tell her that as long as she can sick a duck well it will work out… as a duck wrangler.

4. “It is not your fault, it is mine”.

5. Shut up, Meg!

6. Tell her to stay a virgin if she wants to be desired as much or more than the attractive girls.

7. No father thinks his daughter is ugly. Full stop.

8. Show her pictures of every celebrity that had an awkward stage , and how everyone can glow up with nothing but some eye liner and a nice smile.

9. Why would I ever call my daughter ugly

10. What you supposed to do? Lie to them?

11. You start by saying, this is going to hurt me, more than it hurts you.

12. I would tell her 90% of being attractive is within your control

13. You’re not too bright , no man has an ugly daughter

14. I mean there are definitely people who look at their kids and think in their heart, “well hopefully they will be smart”. If I had an ugly daughter, I would love her and steer her toward things like fitness so that she could maximize her potential and find confidence in herself

15. I’d let my daughter know that she’s ugly and that she’ll have to work a little bit harder compared to other ladies. It’s best to be honest with your kids and let them know where they stand in life. Last thing I want is to have my daughter think she’s beautiful and have her standards way too high. Nothing good comes from living in delusion. Same way how if my son is 5’3 I wouldn’t tell him that he was tall.

    Not every child is beautiful or special. We have to be realistic with kids. I would give my daughter pointers to help make up her short coming. Since she’s already ugly…….she’ll have to be above average in other areas to compete. Especially since most women are gunning for men in the top 20% which would include my daughter. It’s best to lower her standards for more average guys imo.

    I’m not big on lying to kids and setting them up for failure. Even if I do lie to my daughter, the world around her will show her the truth by how people interact with her.

16. You look a lot more like me than your mother, so what are you trying to say?

17. Ugly goes beyond looks. Beauty shows in your actions, how you treat people, etc. I don’t plan on being a parent but never would I ever call a child of mine something so debilitating

18. Get those legs out, most men will think, fuck, face doesn’t matter that much.

19. “Sometimes, a personality is more important than looks”

20. What would you say if she asked of she was fat?

21. Probably just it’s in her control with how she looks

22. Oh honey. Yes.

23. “Ask your mother”

24. BING BONG

25. Id tell her to stop talking to strangers on the internet

26. Probably one of the dumbest questions I’ve ever seen on here. No man worth a damn is going to say to his daughter, “Yes, dear, you’re ugly.”

27. Don’t have a daughter but if I did. I wouldn’t bully her and belittle her and I wouldn’t think she’s ugly.

    I’d do everything I can to make sure she has good self esteem and confidence.

28. L father type post. You probably play league of legends or some shit

29. Well you look like your mother, and I don’t get with ugly chicks. So you have nothing to worry about my little mudpie.

30. First thing is tell her she’s not, she’s beautiful. I can’t think of ever seeing a daughter of mine ugly because of father bias, but even if I wouldn’t think she’s pretty if she wasn’t my daughter, I’d still tell a white lie. Then try to explain how subjective beauty is and how sometimes girls would put u down if they’re jealous.

    I’d want to also tell her how her personality affects her appearance a great deal, but I’m afraid it’ll sound like “you’re ugly, so u gotta work on your personality”.