I (26f) started dating this guy (27m) about a month ago. Went on two dates that went well and thought we had a pretty good connection IMO. We also have mutual friends but matched on a dating app. After the second date I hadn’t heard from him for a few days, so I texted him to hangout and he said he couldn’t because of work but we would “figure something out next week”. I took this as he wasn’t interested anymore and decided to move on. About a week and a half later he texted me and asked me out on a really nice date. Well we went on the date and it went really well and we spent about 6 hours with each other. We hung out at his place afterwards and talked a little bit about our feelings and he insinuated he wanted to plan more stuff to do and hangout in the future and asked if I had been dating other people.
It’s been about two days and I haven’t heard from him since the night of our date (for context I have not slept with him yet). He typically only reaches out to set up dates, but I’m confused if he is truly interested in me or not? I feel like he would reach out to me more, but maybe I’m just overthinking it? I’m sure he is also seeing other people too, it just frustrating because this is the first guy I have been interested in a long time and I feel like I am just part of his rotation right now. I understand it’s only been three dates, but the inconsistency in communication confuses me.
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It’s been only two days, don’t worry and wait it out a bit more, nothing is for sure at this point, he’s giving mixed signals. But personally in my opinion he doesn’t seem too interested and maybe he’s testing his options