So for context me and my gf have been dating for 6 months and here recently she hasn’t wanted to have sex for over a month saying “it hurts too much” or “she’s never gotten off to sex” or “she doesn’t want it to be all our relationship is about” and it’s killing me because I’m am horny 24/7 7 days a week. Like I crave it and I literally just want her. Getting her off isn’t hard anytime I go down on her or just use fingers outside it’s instantly less than a minute or really quick and im shocked because that’s the fastest someone’s gotten off with me, however if I finger her or just have normal sex she doesn’t get off and she says it doesn’t feel the best. Now granted I am like 5x her size, im 6’3 210lbs of muscle compared to her being 5 foot and being only like 100lbs so I can see how it hurts and she says she feels like she’s losing her virginity every time. Idk how to make it feel better for her, she says it hurts her insides and makes her sore and she feels like it’s her however my ex said the same thing. I’ve tried loosening her before and nothing seems to change it and it makes me feel horrible. Hopefully y’all can give me some advice so I can make it better for her cause I don’t want to give up sex forever and I’ve already went through that in one relationship and eventually was cheated on and I don’t want to go through another sexless relationship with this gf. Any and all advice is welcome please
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Have you tried lube? Toys? It’s possible penetration just doesn’t feel good to her, which it doesn’t for a lot of women. If you had a vibrator on her clit while you were fucking maybe things would go smoother. I’d also worry that she has something wrong with her vagina, it should not hurt. If she has something like a pelvic infection that might explain why she’s in pain during sex. If she does have one she needs to go to the doctor asap because if that turns septic she could get really sick and possibly die. I’d also ask if sex for her has always hurt or if it’s just been with you. I would also ask if it has gotten worse lately.