Hey, so I recently ended things with the person I was dating after 4 months ‘ I noticed her BFF is checking my stories on the daily.
I don’t know if it can help but her BFF is moving out to a new city next month. As I knew we would never see each other again, I send her a nice text of encouragements for this new chapter in her life. I never got a reply.
Should I say something to her about why she keeps checking my stories ?
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I wouldn’t say anything directly to the BFF about checking your stories. A few things to consider:
– She may just not have unfollowed you yet and your stories still come up in her feed automatically.
– As the BFF, she’s likely keeping tabs on you/the situation out of loyalty to her friend.
– Calling her out could come across as confrontation or making assumptions about her intentions.
– It’s best to let this one play out naturally without direct engagement, since you ended things with her friend.
– There’s a risk of coming between the friendship dynamics or creating drama if you bring it up.
If she doesn’t unfollow within a reasonable time like a few more weeks, you could consider unfollowing/unadding her first to move on fully from that social circle. But for now I’d leave it be and not read too much into the checking of stories. A clean break with minimal contact is usually best in these situations.