So I’ve (31m) been with 3 people in my life, been a bit of a late bloomer and only had my first sexual experience with someone at 25.
During the first times of intimacy the girlfriends voluntarily tried giving blowjobs. But honestly I never enjoyed it, it feels weird to me. The first girlfriend was just inexperienced and too careful, I felt nothing.
But the 2 after that did have more experience and I know their ex boyfriends demanded quite a lot of blowjobs, so I can only assume they were good. But again it feels weird. Either too little sensation or so extremely sensitive it’s uncomfortable, like rubbing it with dry cloth. Noticing them giving their all while I’m not enjoying it makes me so selfaware I lose my erection in seconds and they of course stop wondering what’s wrong. It kills the mood. And they stopped giving any after a couple of failed attempts (although they improved a bit)
It’s awkward and I feel like this is definitely wrong on my end. The thought of a bj always appealed to me but the sensation doesn’t feel sexual to me at all so far.
Has anyone else experienced this or why does it feel so weird? Or are they trying too hard overstimulating me?