Nice is nothing. It’s the bare minimum. Nice is not a trait or a skill. Most of the time a “nice guy” is trying to put in the required number of nice tokens to get women to sleep with them. Then when that tactic doesn’t work they are assholes. And yes some women are dating assholes. But that is what they hate about them. The asshole can be charming, funny, successful. They often hide their intentions and gaslight. So if you are a nice guy. Learn some skills, improve yourself. And be kind to everyone. Not just nice to those you want something from. Make yourself not the boring person that can only offer nice to a partner. And most important. Pick partners for compatable personalities. Because looks are the least important thing. Make sure you match on: religion, politics, kids, career, vacation, hobbies. All the important things to your life. Then looks. And always give someone a chance. Especially with online dating. People suck at taking pictures.