This has been bugging me, and i really dont know if it is weird or not, like we were just sitting and he randomly asked me to give him my gum, it bothered me and i think its not normal, am i overthinking?

4 comments

  1. Eh 🤷‍♂️ depends on the vibe of the relationship tbh…sounds like some goofy teasing to me.

  2. Nahhh. People lick each other genitals in a relationship so sharing a gum doesnt seem such a big deal, just sounds like a joke. Also i rather give him my eaten gum than take his gum out of his mouth.

  3. It’s kinda gross for sure. First date with my ex-wife, she spit out a piece of gristle and I nabbed it off her plate and ate it. Said something about not wasting my money on her expensive steak – in a very joking manner. She said it turned her on cause a) I was so not disgusted by her mouth lol and b) it was so bold and crazy she was intrigued by me. This doesn’t sound like that though.

  4. I think it’s a little weird, but not everyone does. And when you really think about it, it’s not really any more gross than making out or oral sex or something like that. So it’s more of a psychological gross than anything.

    Obviously he doesn’t mind it. If you don’t mind it, go for it. If you do mind it, don’t. Not really a big deal

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