I tried to finger my asshole and massage my prostate. Only feeling i can get is discomfort when i get to aproximate zone of prostate. I add lube of course but it doesnt matter. I can’t feel any positive feelings. I always put my finger so it could be on prostate. Even relax so my asshole could be less tight, which isn’t even the problem.
How do i even massage prostate? I tried to rub the place but as i said earlier, only discomfort.
Please help me out!
P.S Don’t ask me if am a girl. I am not and i have a prostate.
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Google prostate porn. It will show you. Or ask gay friends
Do some reading. Poking the spot alone is not pleasurable, at least not for me when I did it many moons ago. You get a sensation deep in your urethrae kind of like when pee shoots through it. It takes a good 5 minutes of rubbing this spot before anything explosive happens. And it’s more a build up of kind of pleasure / kind of need to pee. The explosion is more a release of a needing to pee pleasure orgasm, followed by, you guessed it, pee cum. Have a container or something at the ready as there will be pee
Don’t have a prostate myself so I can’t give any tips but r/ProstatePlay has more info!
Prostate toy?
it takes practice. it also helps to be turned on but try your best to relax at the same time and pay attention to what sensations you’re feeling. It usually takes a decent amount of work to figure out what makes the nerves there happy and once you start feeling good from it you can work on what builds up there feeling. Recommend tracing very light circles around the prostrate alternating with gentle pressure and massaging.
From what I have heard. Go fo the general area and find a spot that gives you a feeling that you wanna pee. That should be the right spot.
No clue about the discomfort.
I have tried almost every method over the years and have never experienced one. I was always relaxed and had no hang ups. I read a lot of forums on this topic and while some people experience it quickly, most people work at it for quite some time to get there while some never do. I would recommend reading forums on the topic and patiently try what they suggest. Almost all recommend either an Njoy or Aneros product. Results definitely vary.
Play with your cock at the same time to find the right spot. Sometimes it is hard for me to find it and playing with my cock helps reveal itself to me. Once you locate it you can either stop cock play to try for a prostate only orgasm or continue playing with your cock for a blended orgasm.
Good luck!