I’m a 38 yr old female and my husband is a 33 yr old male. I’ve had trust issues from being cheated on in previous relationships. I think my husband now is cheating but he denies it. How do we build trust in a relationship?

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  2. Bro I feel u dm me here or on instagram (nicolina_zilly) if you want me to get his instagram or snapchat password so you dont have to worry about getting cheated on again.

    Same goes for everybody else I was in a similar situation and I wish someone did this for me so id love to help.

  3. u/object-silly, in marriage I’ve learned it’s not who’s right or wrong, it’s how committed are you in the relationship. Are you committed or are you not committed. There is not a middle ground. If there is suspicion of cheating that is creating mistrust issues, it’s probalble correct, however, I’ve met people who are so sensitive that everything the other person does, they feel it’s cheating. Best way to have yourself evaluated is to attend marriage family counseling. They act as a mediator and are able to see more objectively the marriage situation.
    Building trust is a slow process of small steps. Past cheating issues need to be dealt with, and if unresolved then will resurface as you’re seeing. Again, a MFT will help you through this and then over it. I’m so sorry…it is a long process, but it well worth the effort. Your husband should recognize your struggle and in compassion, encourage you to attend, and see a MFT. Maybe encourage by attending with you.

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