So I (f18) had sex with my boyfriend (m18) for the second time yesterday. The first time (Also my first time ever) actually hurt like hell. I couldn’t enjoy it for even a moment and we stopped before either of us came because I couldn’t continue. The day after I was bleeding so much that I had to check if I’d gotten my period, which couldn’t have been the case because that wouldn’t be for another two weeks.
Yesterday we tried for a second time, but It didn’t feel much better. Even the slightest movement caused so much pain that I had to tell him to stop.
I mean I was told that it would hurt in the beginning, but I didn’t expect it to hurt this much. I’m kinda afraid that I’ll never enjoy it. Does this pain go away after a while?
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Yes, it will.
Do not worry.
It will go away, use lube.
Drink Lots of water, keep that coochie hydrated girl. Next time use lube. Could of been from heat friction, or could of been he didn’t do foreplay. If it’s.. dry, it could hurt and especially for your first time. Stay safe 🙏
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Take things slow, make sure you’re nice and warmed up beforehand and use lots of lube! The more you’re able to relax, the more comfortable it should be.
If you’re still having pain, go see a doctor. There are conditions like vaginismus that can make things uncomfortable but they’re very treatable. Don’t just suffer, sex should *not* be a horrible experience for you!
Maybe wait a few days for your body to heal up? Then LUBE. lots of it. I had this experience too. Took a few days before I wasn’t in pain.