I know this sweet girl through social-media since 2015. She connected with me accidentally, apologised, and then wanted to be friends with me.
Given the significant age difference between us,…I never reciprocated properly and she too was excited in the beginning to connect with me,…but then later on during 2017,…completely cut contacts with me, and kinda disappeared from social-media.
But she’s back again, reconnected with me after a long time. But unlike before,…she doesn’t seem excited or even talks to me. Earlier she would always initiate the conversation. But now she’s rarely active on social-media.
What did I do wrong that she doesn’t seem excited like before to talk to me? Also,…can anyone guess why would someone disappear and then reappear suddenly but become a completely changed person?
Sorry guys if my post is too long,…I just want to know the psychology of this girl.
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What’s the age difference between you two?
We as men cannot resist the urge to try to fathom what goes on in the mind of the female being, even when we know our efforts are futile.
Just ask her straight up? Everyone’s got their own issues and maybe she’s gone through some tough times or something. Try to avoid being too nosy or pushy if she isn’t as responsive as you’d like her to be?
I remmrber girls texting me all the time when I was young n we were the same age I think that just happens 💯you grow up or soemthing n get mature so u stop hitting people up and prolly texting first but I say forget about it if there’s a age difference I think ur overthinking it cuz people can come back to follow you or reach out to you just cuz there curious how your doing cuz they remmrber you I don’t think it’s nun serious or big tho
It’s been 6 years, and you’ve never had any kind of meaningful connection or relationship with her? The answer to all your questions: it’s got nothing to do with you.
I would avoid this. You’ve never met in person or held a conversation.
this is really creepy. she’s a stranger. she did not have a crush on you – she probably hardly thinks of you. i think it’s likely that you didn’t do anything wrong she just does not know you and does not care to. please leave her be.
Hey buddy, my guess is she grew up and probably saw your account in passing and reconnected with you because she’s reminded that you’re a figment of her past who she’s now indifferent to and doesn’t mind seeing on her timeline from time to time.