Me, M Secret. I have always been an innocent little boy. I focus on my studies and im quite approachable. Then one day came. One day that ruined my life for the worst. Suddenly i have been getting into love or romance. I would always imagine having s*x with someone, I think it is too soon. I try to pleasure myself regularly. Hoping it would stop my ungodly desires. But no. It just became worse and worse. Iam now trying to meditate. And doing all the things i can to forget my hornyness or smth. One time i just kept imagining fu*king with someone. Everysingle time those thoughts in my head appear. I hope for the best. I really think that its so early for me having like, thoughts ykwim.
Thank you for listening to my story. (Pls help me i wanna be a good boy again).
2 comments
Your context gives a vibe that you’re probably from a religious background. It’s human to have those thoughts and to do things to satisfy yourself sexually. All is well if it’s within limits and if it doesn’t affect your day to day life. Things that could actually help are getting along with someone and doing the deed or masturbating to relieve yourself until that happens.
There is nothing wrong about thinking of sex. it is natural and biology, just as you have put it that your hormones are kicking in. The important thing is simply to make sure that you use those sexual urges appropriately like masturbating or deciding to have consensual safe sex when you are of the right age.
You are not a bad boy for having sexual urges or thoughts. However I do understand that if you are religious there is often a stigma against having sexual thoughts and urges.
If this is the case, then here is my *sexual religious advice to you*
Understand that what is happening to you is natural and healthy so enjoy it, but religiously speaking, it is what and and how you deal with those urges that some religions define as being a badboy.