Wife wants to find a 3rd

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1. I’d think if this was an actual serious question, you’d find a sub that was more suited to this type of thing

2. Tinder. Put good pictures of yourself and wife. Put on the bio you’re looking for a third. Setup a date with all three of you. Have fun. Done it a few times

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4. You respectfully decline is my advice.

5. You might have more luck on r/ethicalnonmonogamy but really don’t do this if you don’t want to.

6. It’s a trap.

7. She must pick, otherwise it’s a ticking bomb.

8. My worthless two cents to situations like this. This can turn bad real fast. The aftermath has always a prize that needs to be paid. Let it be money. I would definitely prefer to do it with someone professional instead with someone who has an emotional prize. And please make sure that this isn’t a set up. There are way to many stories, where the wife sees this as a test or changes her feelings after seeing it in real life. To be sure I would maybe not go the full way with her the first time. Discuss in detail what you can and can’t do before and how you will handle it after that.