How to do anal properly

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1. Lots of lube. Keep using it until it feels good. But start with a finger, then two and go slow… like slower than you think you need to. Eventually work up to you and keep up with the lube

2. How often does she use the butt plug?

3. Sorry but I misread „how to do anal property“

4. Looooots of lube. Another thing, she might automatically contract her butt muscles but she has to actively RELAX them. Kind of the opposite of what you’d do as a woman with your vaginal muscles to make yourself more tight. Don’t contract the ass muscles, relax them. As I said, might be counter-intuitive because we tend to tense up when sth hurts. You can practice this with a finger though, doesn’t even have to be a butt plug because it’s only about actively practicing the relaxation.
   If nothing works and everything hurts, it’s also possible she has internal hemorrhoids. A proctologist can help with that.
   Hope you guys work it out and get to enjoy- anal orgasms are awesome for women and men alike 😏

5. Your girlfriend needs to relax and not tense, the more relaxed the easier it is

6. Play with your tongue on her butthole. Personally I can relax than even better while he pushes his dick in. Buttplugs are also very good, mostly better than fingers because they „can“ be hourtful for an anal beginner!

7. Don’t just jump straight into it. Lots of foreplay, lube, and most importantly communication. Anal play can be so much fun and feel incredible if done right! Have fun! 😉💜

8. Ebena bulb 3 x before, add psyllium husk to your diet, at least a day or so before…it’s just part of my daily.

   Get an anal trainer set like [this](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-adam-eve-booty-boot-camp-training-kit-99260.aspx) Train daily for 30 minutes starting at the smallest and moving up when comfortable.

   You learn to relax the right muscles, when there’s no pain you can be open to pleasure.

   Of course lots of lube too, you might consider a[lube shooter](https://www.lovehoney.com/lubes-essentials/lubricants/lubricant-applicators/p/lube-tube-applicator-syringe-2-pack/26266.html)

   Have fun!

9. lol it’s def his idea and she’s just going along with it …nothing new.Litlle boy saw shit online and wants it too lol .