So a little overview of me, I’m 31 I’m a virgin and I haven’t really gone on any dates. I tried expandiang my scope of where I’d look for people like me and I found a few that were interesting. I joined up with this kink dating / social media platform and there’s a few people who were interesting enough that we talked a little bit and one want to meetup for a hookup.
I’m new to this whole thing, I don’t know who I can ask to get expectations down on what it’s going to be like. I’m a little nervous about the whole thing but I am interested. Should I tell her that I’m a virgin? Does the fact that I’m a life long bachellore matter? Any advice at all would be appreciated.
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Firstly, we’ll done for stepping out of your shell and getting your feet wet – that must have taken a lot of courage.
You haven’t made it clear if this is a “sex-oriented” site or a “dating site”. If you are going on an exploratory date with this girl than keep the whole virgin thing quiet for now until sex seems more likely. If this is a ‘meet up to fuck’ site then a) be careful that you aren’t being stung as a mark in some way and b) certainly bring up that you’ve never done this before and need to be taught how best to get her to orgasm. This is not something you can ‘bluff’ your way through. Reactions may vary, but I’d have thought most women would find that very sweet and love to act as your tutor in your debut sex play.