I have never been on a date with a woman and I really want to. One reason is that in been considered unattractive by most women. Another is that I’m on the autism spectrum and I don’t even know how to tell if a woman likes me or how to flirt with them. Dating is confusing to me and I don’t know where to start.
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You can’t expect anyone to believe in you or invest in you if you don’t believe/invest in yourself. Lots of successful people with ASD with partners. Women don’t want someone who thinks of themselves as ugly.
Do you have hobbies?
Get in the gym, fix your diet, get jacked and lean.
Make money, buy cool stuff and put yourself out there
Start with hygiene, clean clothes, shave, proper haircut etc. Work on your body language, stand up straight with your shoulders relaxed. The rest will come with experience.
Why do you think you’re ugly? Do you groom yourself nicely? what is your style? do you eat healthy and workout?
honestly bud you need to work on your self-esteem before you attempt to date. Why don’t you give yourself a bit of a makeover? Im sorry but you keep saying you’re ugly so I’m assuming an overweight sloppy guy.
get a gym membership and eat minimally processed foods. do this for you and your health. you seem to be a little depressed too and working out will help you tremendously.
i also suggest some therapy perhaps, again you seem really down on yourself and a therapist could help you practice some social skills.
confidence truly does help. a guy could be “ugly” and i could be attracted to him based on how funny and confident he is alone. it’s happened before.