I know that most men don’t share their feeling/depression/anxiety with other people, as most people would criticize any man does that as if it reduces his masculinity and would tell him to man up.
But prolly your gf isn’t just a “person”, does she know about your case? If yes, then does your gf considered it as a red flag or did she give you the emotional support you need?
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I’m not sure if it was anxiety, depression, or just being an introvert, but I’ve had conflicts with exes particularly about going out and staying out. Like some nights I wasn’t feeling it and they would be annoyed I wasn’t Mr Social, and they wanted to be out until 3 am and I just wanted to go home. Little things like that.
Guess.
>But prolly your gf isn’t just a “person”, does she know about your case?
Every girlfriend whom I’ve had has known about it, the only ones who weren’t dicks about it were one from like my first year of college and my current one.
> If yes, then does your gf considered it as a red flag or did she give you the emotional support you need?
The former was really accepting of it because she had also shared had issues so we both were able to talk about it with one another.
My current girlfriend and I have a similar relationship (although she has considerably less issues and she said she knew I had issues because of some joke I made when we first met)
Makes her not exist
It makes it impossible to get one.
I talk about it with her and how I’m feeling. Ever since it’s been out in the open, she’s really helped me a lot. Not having to hide it is a huge relief.
I don’t know any guy who has social anxiety or depression and has a girlfriend.