Hey! So I’m 23, BF is 27 and we’ve been together for 3ish years. Recently he’s expressed to me that he would find it really hot to be woken up with a bj and I’m definitely willing to try.
The first issue is that he’s way more of a morning person than me, so he’s almost never asleep when I’m up. I started getting up at 6 to take my dog for walks before it got hot so now maybe there’s a chance I could catch him asleep (if the alarm or dog don’t wake him up)
The second issue is I can’t logistically figure out how to do it without waking him. I told him I can’t really pull his pants down without waking him so he started going to bed in underwear that open from the front. He sleeps on his side away from me so I have to get him on his back somehow without waking him? And I need to untuck him from the covers as well without waking him? I tried this morning but he woke up pretty much immediately as I was untucking the sheets, and worse than that the dog went after his dick so I had to wrestle her away. Not a super sexy scenario.
I’m definitely a bit of an overthinker, but I’m starting to wonder if being woken up with a bj is a porn thing? Just kinda unrealistic? Do I keep trying? Or do I wait for a better opportunity? I’m just really confused hahah
I appreciate any advice.
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You get points for a sleepy blowjob too.
If he wakes up “good morning, I wanna play with my man” will make him very happy.
As a courtesy, I’ll always swallow if I woke him up for a bj… because he might not want to be up and about yet and then there’s no mess for him.
Thanks for the clarification in the description lol… yeah I guess I’m a heavier sleeper or if I do wake up, I’m half awake, so that probably helps. Definitely woke up to getting blown a few times. Always awesome.
You’re overthinking it
He doesn’t need to literally be asleep.
Have him sleep naked, which can signal to you that he is open to it the next morning. Perhaps you can set an alarm that only you will hear (like your phone on vibrate right under your pillow, or a smart watch).
It’s okay if he stirs a little, just keep doing your thing.
Keep the dogs out of this.
As a guy I can promise you, he won’t care that he’s not actually waking up with his dick in your mouth. Getting a blowjob and about to get a blowjob are essentially the same thing lol. And if he does complain that you woke him up trying to get him prepared, then you need to have him make it easier for you to get him into position
Well if he’s a lite sleeper like me he would appreciate it that someone take care of his morning wood
If he’s awake or not
Just go for it! Roll him over, pull his boxers down and get to work. I’m certain he’ll love it
just do it, can’t imagine him complaining
Uhhh what do you mean the dog “went after his dick”?
He’s not going to complain any way you do it
Haha yes this is one of the many reasons I always try to get my bf to sleep naked 😉 or at least to wear loose pants! I need to have easy access 😉 (for morning BJs or nighttime sexy times). He also burrows deep in the blankets and curls up – finding his dick can be a real challenging expedition sometimes! Haha. Luckily he sleeps like a log and I can maneuver him a lot without him waking up. I do it in stages, slowly unravelling the blankets and freeing his cock. Then I start stroking it a bit to begin to make it hard, and he might start stirring a bit. It’s ok if he is still curled up, he actually really likes when I start licking him from behind, licking his balls and the base of his cock. And I’ll reach around and stroke his shaft a bit. This is the point he will usually start moaning and waking up, and then he will roll over onto his back and the full BJ can begin 🙂 yummm!
Just wait until the opportunity seems right. It doesn’t need to happen right away.
You don’t have to wait he is fully asleep to do it. Waking him up gently, cuddling then BJ is fine too !
Ummm as a guy there’s something I ABSOLUTELY need to do the moment I wake up that may not be conducive to be on the receiving end of a hummer. Just my 2 cents 😉
some guys are so lucky.
follow what Nike says, Just do it!
maybe sleep in another room where the alarm won’t wake him? set it for pretty early.
Im sorry, i have no advice, but that about your dog made my day
Just do it before you go to bed. It doesn’t have to be perfectly timed to his wake-up time. When he wakes up, just playfully shout “surprise”
“the dog went after his dick” <– 
If this was the other way around it would be rape I bet lol.
I managed to do it for my boyfriend, but he is a heavy sleeper and tends to throw the blankets off. We had the conversation a while back, but we both agreed that it was something we wanted to try. He tosses a lot in his sleep, so I waited for him to lay on his back. I started kissing his neck and whatnot, to get his body ready. Then I slowly removed the blanket, and I thought he was awake at this point but he wasn’t processing yet. I just pulled the pants down in the front, and did the deed. He said he didn’t actually wake up until I started sucking. He was obviously shocked at first, but came pretty quickly.
When I was kissing he was in the zombie state. It is so cute because he will open his eyes, tell me he loves me, then try to go back to sleep. If I wait a minute before touching him again he does it on repeat with no memory. One time we was grinding on me and fondling my boob in his sleep, so I was pushing back because I thought he was awake. He woke up and we got to business but he thought I had woke him up for sex. I know I ramble, but I love this man.
I can’t feel shit when I first wake up.
Viagra and Ambien
Jk, don’t drug your bf!
Tell him to wake u up by filling your mouth with cock.
Men are simple. Lie next to him, rub his cock and whisper loudly enough to wake him “can I please such your co k?”. Done.
It’s half overthinking and half because you yourself are probably not in the mood, which is normal as cortisol levels in a woman is a lot higher in the morning than men. So maybe try when he takes a nap during the day, if that is his fantasy.
It’s def not just a porn thing.
One time after a really rough break up this friend of mine invited me over. We had a few drinks. Enough for me to get sleepy. I went to sleep in her bed and woke up to LITERALLY being throated. The first conscious memory was a loud wet sound and a gag.
I was completely hard about reentry to the waking world. Good times.
Well, needless to say we have now been together for like 6 years and have kids together lol.
I just gotta say, if my wife set an alarm specifically to give me a blowjob, I promise not to complain about being woken up by the blowjob alarm. Ring a ding ding ⏰GOOD MORNING! 🐓
Here’s my 2 cents…
Pretend you’re tired for whatever reason and go to bed extra early, make sure you fall asleep
That way, you’ll find yourself waking up at dawn hours and he’ll definitely be asleep
You can read the other comments on how to go about sucking his dick