Might be a bit explicit, sorry about that

My FWB and I came back from our date last night and I really wanted to suck his dick. We were both a bit drunk, I was down on my knees, so things got hotter and heavier than usual. At one point, he grabbed my hair and started fucking my throat which was the first time we did that. I was absolutely *loving* it. He’s on the bigger side and I always struggled with taking him in fully but last night I barely gagged which really turned me on. The regular tingling started but nothing too out of usual except that I was really wet through the whole thing. It went on for 10 minutes or so when he pushed my head down all the way on his dick and started cumming. I couldn’t move, I couldn’t breathe, all I could feel was him finishing down my throat and that’s when it happened. I just felt my muscles clench, I started convulsing and shaking. It wasn’t exactly like a regular orgasm, maybe a bit weaker and *kind of* different but I also wasn’t exactly able to touch myself through it. It went on for a few seconds after he was done and he all preplexed asked me if I just came but I couldn’t even get my shit together to answer.

My questions are: was this really an orgasm? It’s not my first time to have it without touching although the only (very few) times it happened before was at the gym but definitely never during a sex act without PIV or touching my clit. Is there a way to recreate it or does it happen spontaneously? Have you noticed any acts or positions where it is likely to occur?

P.S. extra question for guys who experienced something similar, how did your partner manage to make you orgasm without touching you? My guy has been awfully cocky the whole day so I believe it’s payback time. Any advice is welcome to get the smugness off his face.

32 comments
  1. Totally normal! I get off hands free while giving head all the time. I honestly looove it.

  2. Definitely a thing. It happens to me when I’m really excited and when I hear my guy make all the noises he does, I get really hot and bothered and I’ve came a few times from giving him head. It’s definitely a different type of orgasm but still really good.

  3. orgasms don’t just happen from genital stimulation. you can orgasm just from being turned on enough.

    P.S. “I really wanted to suck his dick.” was really funny for some reason.

  4. Hands free cumming isn’t common, but it happens. I’ve cum hands free before. It’s not as good as a proper orgasm with good stimulation, but it’s still good.

  5. i’m sure that it was. i’ve had an orgasm without touching myself before. sometimes you just get so turned on that your brain kinda makes it happen 🤷🏼‍♀️

  6. This is not an accidental thing.

    It is a primal thing, beyond your control, wired into you from the dawn of time.

    Embrace that you have connected with it, touched it and now understand the ethereality of this kind of connection with eternity.

  7. I remeber i had a girl over the other day, i absolutely love giving heads as a guy. Its my favorite, and i orgasmed while giving her a head. I was so embarrassed 😂

  8. Google erotic hypnosis. The mind is the most sensitive part of a woman when it comes to orgasming . 😉

  9. Yes it was 100% a real orgasm! I’ve had the same happen many times, last time being this past Sunday.

    I am a sub of a D/s relationship with my Husband, and He regularly enjoys my throat and I *melt* when He does. It’s taken a long time semi-coaching Him to go for it once I trained for a while, practiced often, etc. Now, YAY!

  10. My wife orgasmed from nipple play and fantasizing only before. So it’s possible! Dudes can cum hands free (wet dreams for example ) but it is usually more difficult to do. I’ve cum hands free with THC and prostate play a couple of times.

  11. Not at all unusual. I’ve had it happen to me a couple of times. I was embarrassed but never let on it happen.

  12. My wife has done this numerous times. The first time way back in our 20’s, she was so embarrassed. She genuinely likes the look and feel of my down below and she still has them occasionally when blowing me. As far as how to do it back, I have cum eating pussy, but I was in the sniper position and the bed, well, you get the idea. Lol

  13. Ive never actually cum while giving a bj but I have gotten close… i have heard from other women that this isnt uncommon tho!

  14. Well I just wish I enjoyed giving BJs in the first place…. Damn y’all wild lol I am on antidepressants though and that has killed all of the sexualness I once had lol

  15. It’s happened to me a few times while going down on women🤷🏾‍♂️ sometimes the mental stimulation is all you need

  16. When I am eating my girl out and she starts to orgasm, almost instantly precum will start oozing out of my rock hard and throbbing cock. From then on we start fucking and and cum non stop for what feels like forever in the moment.

  17. Finally someone I can relate to. Okay so I am totally obsessed with my fiancé’s dick. I absolutely LOVE giving him head. When things get hot and heavy while I am giving him head I tend to have a similar experience as you. But I would say that it feels STRONGER than a regular clitoral orgasm. The first time it Happened I was super confused and I didn’t tell my man because I was embarrassed. The second time that it happened I was a little tipsy so after it happened I just stopped…sat back and said “I have to tell you something.” And I told him that I just came from being so turned on from sucking his dick. He didn’t believe me at first. I honestly don’t think he believed me until the 3rd time it happened and that was because I came and then wad dripping wet and made a pretty nice sized wet spot on the sheets. He was very turned on by the fact that I had cum from giving him head. I don’t touch myself or use a vibrator or dildo while I do it either, so I’m literally just so turned on from how much he loves me sucking his dick. He said he never knew head like this existed except for maybe some porn stars…he swears I’m better than most of them too. When he starts moving around and moaning or when he grabs my head to push it down more on his dick I just go crazy. I start moaning and I start really going in. If I don’t stop from time to time I can make him cum in under 3 minutes. It really is a huge turn on. About 2 years ago he told me something he hadn’t told me before: one time he came just from eating me out. He had gotten so turned on by my pussy and by the taste and by the sounds I was making that he came on himself and the bed. At the time he was embarrassed too so he just pretended like his dick went soft and he couldn’t have sex. Come to find out he had cum! I wish he would have told me when it happened. That is so fucking hot.

  18. If my partner was aggressive like that during a blowjob, it would be an instant turn off for me. Throat fucking, pushing your head down and not being allowed to move? Sounds very unpleasant.

    But different people like different things, I suppose.

  19. The only positive memorable interaction with my ex was this! Same position, her kneeling during one of two bj’s she’d ever given (outside of regular sex). She pushed herself down onto me until I felt it slip down her throat, she let out a few squealing moans and she came *really* hard. This was early on in our relationship, I don’t know why she wouldn’t want to do that more often.

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