So last 4th of July, 2 of my friends (M and R) got into an argument that resulted in them not being friends anymore. I think R was definitley in the wrong about it but I just decided to stay out of it because I have been in the middle of a lot of their drama in the past and I was sick of it at that point. I am still friends with both of them. At the beginning of August, M starts to make plans to go to a music festival and invites me and 2 other people. He obviously doesn’t invite R when normally we would have. I didn’t tell R about this because why tell him about something he isn’t invited to. The plans get finished and skip to today, the day before we leave for the festival.
I am at a bar with R and he wants to make plans for tomorrow. I tell him that I’m booked for this weekend but down to hang on like Sunday night. R asks what I’m doing and I tell him me and M are going to a music festival. I could tell this upset R and after he immediatley was pulling the “yea I should probably head out soon. I’ll see you Sunday, have fun at the fest.” kinda thing.
Did I do anything wrong? It’s R’s fault he and M aren’t friends anymore. Should I send R a text like “hey sorry about the fest. M invited me. Iit wasnt my idea.” kinda thing? Maybe he’s sad that me and him haven’t gone to a festival in a couple years and now I’m going with M?
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