This topic involves sex and other intimate acts. Warning before!
Hi reddit,
Okay, so here’s the thing, my new boyfriend and I have lots of sex. I am a 24f with a very high sex drive and he’s 26m and has the same thing. So it’s really fun. Only thing is, I don’t like giving blow jobs. I’ll do it as an act of foreplay, but road head or any stand alone blowie I’m just not into. I’ve tried different techniques and instead of thinking about the act just thinking of his pleasure, but nothing really helps. I’ve had some horrible experiences with bj’s in the past so that is definitely something I need to notice and work through. But in the mean time, I do really want to please him and make him happy.
Idk any time he even mentions it I get annoyed. Tbh I think I feel it’s demeaning for me. I don’t know…. Any ideas????
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My wife is like this. My own taste has changed too. Dirty talk makes up for it
Maybe he can be more interactive: pulling ur hair softly, talking dirty, grabbing ur lady parts while u do it.