Alright so I’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time, and we’ve been talking a lot and gotten close within the last month. We have almost everything in common which is unreal and our personalities perfectly complement each other. He’s complimented me in ways no one has before and makes me feel special. Recently we’ve admitted our feelings for each other and are in a relationship right now.
However, ever since we’ve put the label my feelings are going back and forth and while we haven’t done anything serious, I don’t know if I’ve actually ever been seriously in love with him.
Is this normal? He really, and seriously loves me, so I don’t want to break his heart if I actually don’t have feelings for him anymore. I can’t tell anymore. In fact, I’m not even sure if I’m ready to be in a relationship. I used to always want to be with one partner my whole life but suddenly I’m scared of commitment when literally the supposedly right guy is in front of me. We’re also long distance now so I don’t even know if it’s actually meant to be. It’s so frustrating too because we’ve gotten so close as friends before.
Tldr: Are these feelings that I have are actually real? Should I stay with him?