I had many sexual experiences before and as soon as I get into a relationship I loose interest. At the start it’s always great and sometimes I can be horny, but most of the time I’m not. I’m still very attracted to my bf but I’m just not as playful as before, I don’t feel like trying new things, I even refuse to do certain stuff. I always had lot of performance anxiety and body image issue even in my previous relationships, but I always tried but now I don’t even bother just because I know it will feel more stressful than enjoyable. And now I’m really struggling to feel desire for having sex. Any advice?
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I experienced this in the past with relationships, where the guy would be super emotionally supportive and there for me in the beginning, and it made our emotional connection really strong, and it made me want to sleep with them all the time however, as the months went on. They stopped talking to me as much and having those in-depth conversations and it caused me to emotionally not feel as close to them, and intern it made me not want to sleep with them as much. is it possible that your partner and you are not communicating as much or the same way as you were in the beginning and you are not feeling as close to them? Because I can be a huge thing especially for women because a lot of sex for us is emotional. not having a strong, emotional connection would cause anybody to not want to get into bed with someone… maybe it is time for a date night so that you guys can connect again and have some good conversation because sometimes life gets busy and that we are neglecting our partner