My wife and I have been married for about 15 months now in an arranged marriage setting. Unfortunately so far we have not been able to have penetrative sex and technically both of us are still virgins. It is slowly taking a burden on both of us. She is kind and caring but also too religious and I am not sure if am that into her. We have had a discussion about trying more but the past failures during the act have taken a toll on me and I don’t try hard enough which makes it harder and the other night I found her crying because we still haven’t been able to do the deed. Nothing medicallly wrong as got tested for everything. I also tried a pill one time (Cialis) but it didn’t work out in terms of making me hard. Maybe I need to take a higher dose. Added to that I recently got laid off from my work which has added to my mental stress. Really worried about how this will impact our relationship in the long run.