So I (20 m) had a sexual encounter with a woman of the age. Basically she gave me head but the way she did brought me here. So she started doing the standard stuff you would except, really loving with kisses before taking it in. Then out of nowhere, while making eye contact with me, she she pulled off and let it fall on her face: playing with it and kinda nuzzling it. After a little bit of that, she went back to the standard stuff, but after awhile she did it again with slapping it on her cheeks and licking it. The way she was doing it was like she demanded attention of it all up in her face. She held it up to her face before whispering and mumbling words of praises. It really left an impact on me and what I’m trying to figure out is how can i return the favor by doing something with the same energy of her teasing praise yet kinda soft-dom moves she put on me. Obviously I can’t do the exact same thing, but I would greatly appreciate some suggestions for alternative ways to convey something close I can do on a woman.
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Go down on her, moan a lot and make noise with your mouth. Just don’t suck on things.
Soft/hard sex is my favorite! Slow and intimate.. then hard and freaky for a bit, and then slow and sensual again.. there’s something so sexy about having both worlds! Try it with her !
It wasn’t just her being enthusiastic. It was her making love to your dick. That’s how you could reciprocate: not only enthusiastically eat her, but make love to her pussy. Yeah, as if it were a person!
Say compliments and how it makes you feel and what you’ll do to it. Caress it lovingly with your hands, even with your nose and cheeks. Kiss it every possible way: tenderly, passionately, playfully, teasingly, lustily with desire. Rub all her vulva with your hands and fingers – remember to trim your nails and file them and wash them very well! You could use only one finger running slowly on her vulva, taking a detour to her vagina (without entering it) to pick up some of her wetness and then another detour to slowly and lightly rub her clit with your wet finger. Then instead of those being detours, they’re your roundtrip: from her vagina’s entrance to get your finger wet to her clit to massage it with your wet finger. And you can talk while you do this. And there are many ways you can rub her.
And then you can lick and kiss not just her clit, but her labia and even her vagina’s entrance. Depending on what she likes, you can lick her clit longer and harder, using all your tongue and then just the tip. Moan while licking so your mouth vibrates. Breathe in and out so she can feel the air on her clit. And like they say: eat that pussy as if it were a melon split in half, and fill all your face with melon.
Then you can bring a playful finger to her vagina, first just enjoying being outside, then getting just inside, moving slowly all around. No reason to rush to finger-fucking hardly. Depending on what she likes, maybe you don’t need to use more than one finger at a time or hard finger-fuck.
Remember her vulva has tissue similar to your dick and balls: her inner labia are like your ball’s skin, her clit is like your dick’s head, tissue under her outer labia and at the sides of the first inch inside her vagina is like the tissue in your dick’s shaft. With these similarities you can get an idea what she’s feeling.
And every time you try something new, ask her if she’s enjoying it or not or if she likes it a different way and adjust accordingly.