I’m (23 f) and if you’re dating you should be honest about your intentions !
If you’re dating, and you’re going out with potential suitors, it’s important to be honest. If you want something serious, don’t be afraid to say this. You don’t need to ramble on about marriage or children or building a home together on the first date, but make it clear that you’re not just there to have fun and play the field. As well as setting out your stall, you can also gauge your date’s reaction, which will help you see if they have similar intentions.
Search for common ground
There are many elements that contribute to a successful, long-term relationship, but finding common ground is often a really positive sign. Look for people who have similar interests to you. If you’re dating online, for example, narrow your search criteria to increase your chances of
matching with somebody who has hobbies or passions that you share.
Take your time
In this day and age, there’s a lot of pressure to follow patterns and have 5-year or 10-year plans in place. The reality is that life doesn’t always pan out how you want or expect it to. Although it can be very hard to ignore external influences, for example, pressure from friends or family or society in general, it’s always better to take your time. Don’t force something if it doesn’t feel right, and try not to panic. Many people find that elusive connection when they’re least expecting to.
If you want a serious relationship, it can be difficult to negotiate the dating minefield. Hopefully, these golden rules will help you steer clear of time-wasters and find somebody special.
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