Basically the title. I’ve been with this girl for 8 months. We have an active sex life, we are pretty compatible. She broached this topic last night and asked if I would for her.
I told her I would think about it, but honestly I’m trying to figure out exactly what it is/why do it. I didn’t even know it was an actual thing, I thought “eating ass” was like a phrase? Idk. I know what it is now, but I’m still confused as it doesn’t seem like something that could be stimulating?

I’m not really sure if I should go through with this

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  1. Do you guys have anal sex at all- and does she like it? Probably so, yeah.

    “eating ass”- It’s kind of like oral but instead of the vagina, it’s her butthole. Lots of nerve endings there. Some just like the licking around it, some go full tongue in there.

    Do remember that it’s up to you to decide if you’re into that or not. Recommend trying it fresh out of the shower, for sure.

  2. Love to do it to my partner … just remember that you can’t go directly back to “traditional oral” afterwards without first washing up.

    If you don’t have strong feelings against it, might be worth trying at least once. It obviously took a lot of courage on her part to broach the subject.

  3. If you’re uncomfortable don’t do it. But if you do. Be safe and clean. Don’t wanna be eating chocolate pudding (uuhhh unless ur into that)

  4. It feels amazing. Worth everyone trying once. Will she eat yours so you both have a chance to experience it?

    Have fun!

  5. I know what you are thinking, I had the same hesitancy, but trust me its not gross.

    Have her take a good shower, better if you have a detachable shower head, get everything clean.

    Lick around the area tease around her sphincter and press the tip of your tongue into the center and flick the rose open. add some clitoral stimulation it will drive her wild.

    If she is clean it does not smell or taste bad and it feels pretty damn amazing for the receiver .

    Its a great starter for other related activities.

    And there is a good chance she will add it to her BJ routine for you (totally worth it)

  6. I love it. Lots of nerve endings and as a woman, being licked belly button to butthole is really nice. Makes me feel very sexy and gets me in the mood for anal sex.

  7. There’s a rose bud toy you can buy. It has a “flicking tongue”. Buy one and waterbased lube. It’s something you can do until you decide if your tongue on her butthole is something you want to try. If you don’t and she likes the rosebud, you can keep using the rose bud. Win win. Goodluck on your sexual exploration with this woman! I recommend thinking about things you have wanted to try and maybe approaching it with her!

  8. Have you been living under a rock? I’m almost 60, and I know eating ass is standard foreplay these days.

  9. I eat my husband’s ass. He enjoys it. I enjoy doing it. I have 0 urge for him to do it to me. As long as everything is freshly cleaned it isn’t a huge deal. I just like knowing I’m doing something he enjoys so much.

  10. My bf regularly eats my ass, and really enjoys it too. But I wouldn’t be upset if he didn’t, I know it can be an acquired taste

  11. I see a lot of people saying give it try or do it. If this guy is hesitant because it is an asshole then when he massages it with his tongue, gets the muscle relaxed it opens a bit of gas comes out he is not going to be happy. Unless you do the proper preparation Mr 💩 can show up unexpectedly. I’m just saying he has to be prepared to take one for the team if he is going into anal sex. Don’t ever do something you find disgusting.

  12. Life fact here…eat her ass or somebody else will do it for you… When a woman wants something, she will get what she wants, eventually trust me.

  13. I’d like to eat my wife’s ass and her to do it to me as well, but she does not want and I understand that. She actually does not want to receive mouth sex at all. It’s everyone’s right to draw the boundaries in sex. So you have a right to say no if you don’t like the idea. Clean ass should not smell or taste, but of course it is possible that there still are some bacteria and other butt stuff although the butt has been washed.

  14. Don’t be concerned about smell or taste if she has just washed before. I read somewhere that a cleaned ass is much more hygienic than a mouth in terms of germs and bacteria 😀 And I guess you French kiss each other.

    Having said that: don’t do anything you are not comfortable with.

  15. I would tell her I’ll do it provided she reciprocates. Otherwise, no. Ass eating isn’t kinky these days. It’s also called ass rimming.

  16. Are you even having sex if you dont eat ass? 😂
    Im F27 and i eat ass. Girls or guys doesnt matter

  17. New to eating ass here after my new partner was into it and asked me to. Tbh I love it and love her very much she’s very clean and great fun. Go for it give her what she wants.

  18. You can always use a barrier. Honestly plastic cling wrap works just fine. Put a little lube underneath it.

  19. It’s like a 9-volt battery bro. Stick your tongue in there you’ll be all right just make sure it’s right after a shower LOL

  20. Man here. It feels good for some people to have their butthole licked. Not me, it bores me. But I enjoy doing it to women, if they want it. Here is why I enjoy it. The feel of the hole. Being hugged by the butt cheeks. If there weren’t a hole there, I would like being pressed by the butt cheeks just as much. I think of it this way: I am wild about licking and hugging all the surroundings. It’s a hassle to have to avoid it . Instead, wipe it clean and include it. (Also wipe right inside, the first inch.)
    P.S. don’t just eat her ass. Stick one, then two fingers in it, especially when giving oral.

  21. If it’s the ick factor, try licking it through some plastic wrap so there’s no skin on skin contact. Still great sensation, it’s like doing it with a condom.

  22. I’ve only eaten ass once but I was a little intoxicated and the sex was going on for a while. I remember enjoying it because she loved it, but never did it again for some reason. Just do it after she gets out of the shower 🤷‍♂️

  23. As a guy who looooves eating ass, I say don’t be afraid to try it. If you’re concerned about poop, make sure she showers beforehand. A clean butthole tastes like skin.

  24. Rimming is extremely fun to do, both as the giver, and the receiver.

    Clean properly first, and then lick and tongue fuck that little asshole!

    Don’t knock it till you try it….and get her to reciprocate….

  25. I had never done this with any past lover, but I (65m) got interested in doing it to my wife (68f) about 10 years into our relationship. I’d seen it in porn, and wasn’t sure I’d like it but was intrigued. So I asked her, she washed really well, and I went in…

    OMG. I really had no idea how much I’d enjoy it. It’s so incredibly intimate. It’s really warm in there between her cheeks, and the skin of the actual butthole is so soft. And (I realize this may be an acquired taste) the scent is heavenly. She washes really well so there’s no scent of poo at all, but her freshly washed ass has a subtle spicy scent that just drives me wild. Not really like pussy scent, but kinda related.

    She says she enjoys it too, and often offers up her ass to me for a good tongue lashing, but I still think I enjoy doing it even more.

    It’s especially nice that she’s the only woman I’ve done that to. We’ve both been married before and had many lovers, so it isn’t easy to find truly new things to do together in bed.

    P.S. Don’t forget kissing! You don’t have to lick all the time or even at all. Just light soft kisses on and around her butthole are sublime.

  26. Unlike what most of these comments are saying, if you feel uncomfortable doing it then you don’t have to. You should not be forced to do something you don’t like.

  27. I would strongly suggest that you take a nice hot, long, sexy shower together first, and clean each other really well. I mean REALLY well… wash that little asshole till it sparkles and salutes. When you personally know it’s just been cleaned real well, you’ll have your best chance of getting past the “Oh my God, I’m about to put my tongue where she shits” heebiejeebies. Then you’ll find out if tonguing her asshole is as exciting as a lot of people find it, or does nothing for you. It is loaded with nerve endings, and is incredibly personal / intimate, as well as being a really interesting piece of biological architecture. Personally, I just love the shape and feel of peoples butts.

  28. It can be very stimulating. Ask her to do it to you, you might get a nice surprise. 😉 A lot of guys really like it.

  29. It’s pretty fun. Have her take a shower beforehand to get nice and clean and then tongue her down. Worth trying anything at least once, right?

  30. I guess I don’t get why every sex act is such a separate thing. Listen—you’re down there with your face, your tongue is out, the asshole is like two inches from the vag. Lick it like you lick everything else. 🤷🏻‍♀️ it doesn’t have to be a big event

  31. My partner loves it when I do it, I don’t like it done and don’t enjoy doing it, however because they absolutely go feral over it I do it fairly often as foreplay. Always when they’re freshly showered and squeaky clean ofc. I don’t stick my tongue in though – just the exterior flicking and sucking and what not. Give it a go, even just once or twice to try, its a very sensitive spot and there’s also something raunchy and forbidden that can really turn people onto it.

  32. You know that little leather cheerio that rubs your nose in the 69 position? Yeah just have her wash it up real good then give it a good old fashioned tongue polish. She’ll love it! And maybe you will too 🤷‍♂️ But you never know until you try!

  33. Have her take a shower and lick it like it was an ice cream cone. There is more sensitivity in the perianal area than the genitals. It’s absolutely fucking amazing, and you should have her do it to you, too.

  34. No one can make you do it but in my experience the only thing hotter than eating ass is having my ass eaten. Literally never lasted more than a minute when it’s being done to me.

  35. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. Kind of fucked up how few people have pointed that out. I wonder if it’d be the same if the genders were switched.

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