Did something for my wife the other day during sex, which she enjoyed and I enjoy it when she’s having fun. But it’s something that it seems if I take even a moment to think about what I’m about to do, the “squick” factor steps in and stops me from even starting.
What is this act, you’re wondering? Going down on her after I’ve ejaculated into her.
I mean, overall once I was in there and pleasuring her, I was (95%) good-to-go with just the occasional momentary flash of “ick.” She enjoyed it, she generally enjoys it when I go down on her regardless and she’s not one of those women that can orgasm from penetration, so normally oral sex is a fair big part of our sex lives.
So to those out there, any suggestions on “not thinking about it” when the time comes around again?
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my husband has done this for me a handful of times, and i cant explain how fucking hot and erotic it is, i wish he’d it more. or even pull out in the middle and go down again. if you can tell she enjoyed it, tell her that, and that when you do it, you need her enthusiastic responses to help you get past the mental idea of tasting yourself.
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The post nut clarity is a bitch, but there’s actually a sub for this topic called creampiecleanup
Have wipes near the bed!
It’s one of the most intimate acts. I don’t know why but I love it when my man does that. He stays on my clit so it’s not like he’s slurping anything up.
Couldn’t she take a quick detour to the bathroom in one of the natural ‘breaks’? Just walking a few metres should take care of most of it, then a quick swipe with a damp towel? I can’t see that she’d be offended if you suggested this, given she’s getting a lot out of it.
There is also a newish invention called a Dripstick, if you are both so inclined. I think they look hilarious (and bad for the environment) but maybe you could make it work for you in this situation.
Oh god, just the thought of a man doing this is such a turn on to me…can’t even explain why, it just really rocks my world.
She’s a lucky lady…even if it means you’re mentally talking yourself through the ick! Kudos to you 👌🏻
The ick reaction to anything tends to be lowest when you’re horny, and highest right after you cum if you’re not still ready to go. Are you one and done, or can you get back into it after a minute or 2? If you can get ready for round 2 quick (at least mentally, you don’t really need your dick on board for oral anyways) I’d take a minute or 2 to work your way down there with other teasing and give the post-nut clarity time to turn back into being turned on.
I love my bf eating me out after he cums in me. I also love him eating me out after he cums on me, particularly if he’s playing with my tits after he came on them while going down on me. That might hit the same psychological buttons for her without as much ick for you.
As someone who would worry about her partners ick factor at that point I would recommend having a hand towel/ wipes handy by the bed- quick clean and you’re ready to go. And invest in a womanizer type of toy and use it during sex or post cumming. Works well for someone needing clit stimulation and honestly reduces your ick factor to 0 if you use your hands and mouth elsewhere. Still hot either way.
If you don’t like licking your own sperm, maybe have another cum in her.
This is very common actually as it’s something I’ve been into for a long time and have done lots of research online. I’ve found I will more willingly do it if she asks me or demands me to do it. I’ll tell her before I cum to make sure she tells me to clean her up. When she asks, I willingly do it and pleasure her the way she loves it.
I’ve been there 🙂
I’d approach this another way… think about it!!
It’s your cum from your body. You’d be thrilled about her swallowing it so there’s nothing “wrong” with it. It has a taste but if you think about it “taste” isn’t good or bad… it’s just what it is. In many ways it’s the taste of pleasure. Lot’s of guys and girls love it so why can’t you? (Answer: probably because too many people say “eww” and we subconsciously mimic them without taking the time to reason it out ourselves). I mean … you did it once and not only did nothing bad happen – bloody amazing things happened! What’s icky about that? This is how I kinda “faced up to it” and it worked wonderfully!
So my suggestion is next time you’re doing it take your time and feel how slippery it makes her and connect her pleasure response to what you’re feeling and doing. That’s your cum making her get off!
Personal tip … after a bit stop using your mouth and use the tip of your cock to rub her clit whilst you talk to her and tell her you’re going back – and then get back down there…
😳 I’ve only had one partner do this, and it was so crazy hot 🥵
I don’t get the issue. She has done oral on you. Has she ever complained about the spunk in her mouth???