my fuck buddy likes to get eaten out and I’ve been trying to make her cum/orgasm, but haven’t came close. She doesn’t like it when I finger her, but she likes penis penetration.
I ate her out last week for about 20 min ish just using my mouth and a lot of touching. She was moving her ups up and down while I was going down on her and I started to get aggressive sive and soft, but she still did not cum/orgasm.
The next day she said her clit was hurting maybe from overstimulation? Does that mean she came or orgasmed?
I just want to please her and make her orgasm/cum. 🥹
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First thing is first make sure you are both comfortable. Like the setting/ environment and things like that. Try to focus a bit on foreplay/ teasing. I know that for some people dedicating a little more time on that can help. Try doing things like slowly and gently touching her lower belly, thighs and such. Kiss/ nibble her inner thighs
As for fingering I learned that curving the fingers and touching the roof of the vagina trying to find the bumpy area ( I think is the g spot) feels great. Try to stay a consistent speed and tempo too. If she wants if faster keep doing what you are doing and slowly get faster without changing formation or such. And while doing that apply pressure with you other hand onto her lower belly/ upper FUPA area. When eating out, use sucking motions like sucking your thumb but like use you lips to cover you teeth so you don’t accident Knick her while sucking. And at the same time move your tongue up and down on the clit. And as for only licking the clit, whether it’s up/ down or side to side try to stay again at the a constant tempo.
Things like eye contact and compliments/ sexy talk help a lot too. Don’t be afraid to ask her what she likes and if you are trying something new, it’s ok to ask if she did or don’t enjoy that particular technique or such.
Hope this helped a bit!