I keep getting this trend, mostly with guys that I’m not interested in, take a fancy in me and they do it really intensely out the bat without knowing me at all.
Two of my coworkers have been this way with me. One of them immediately talking about how cute he thought I was to all my coworkers after the first meeting I went to!
I just take offense to it (and get overwhelmed) because there’s no consideration into who I am as a person, just what is on the surface when the personality of someone is super important! I could be crazy and you don’t know because you won’t take the time to get to know me!