My husband and I have been trying out some of our fantasies/to spice it up. I really like the idea of when we’re in public and he tells me a girl he thinks is hot and what he finds attractive, so we want to start doing that. We are monogamous and never ever have plans to be with someone else.
If you do this, how do you talk dirty in public? What kinds of things should I say to him when he points out a hot girl?
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Things like…
I’d love to see your cum leaking out of her
She makes me wet
Wouldn’t her face look great with your cum all over it?
I’d love to see her sucking your cock
Her breasts look delicious
I wouldn’t mind being between her legs myself
She could eat my pussy while you fuck one of her other holes
She’d look better in heels, stocking, and a guarder belt .
I think the easiest thing would just be to ogle her yourself. Comment on the parts of her body you think he’s attracted to. Objectify them with him a bit.
“Oh wow, look at the tits on her.”
“Oh my god, her ass is amazing.”
DON’T compare them to yourself. With this kind of play, the usual idea is to take the energy and arousal of looking at other attractive people and bring it back to your partner.
Depending how comfortable with all of this you are, you could even say things like “I want you to think about her when you’re fucking me later.”
I’ve done this with an ex before, and we both liked talking about what we imagined the woman looked like without clothes (size/color of nipples, shaved/not, color/size pussy lips). We also liked talking about what type of kinks she might have (spanking, choking, slapping, dp, etc). We even talked about what he’d like to do with her. This got us all riled up for sex with each other. I think for me there was also a small jealousy element that made me want to fuck him even more, almost like claiming him.