I’m just a guy trying to get dates and hopefully find “the one” but no matter what people match, then maybe 1/20 will actually respond, but every one who does respond normally just stops responding after a few minutes. I try to keep the convo going, I try to keep them engaged in the conversation, but nothing works. What do I do?
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Don’t give up
I think that’s just online dating in general. Can try to think or something witty to say about her profile
Us woman get too many messages do not take it personally i cannot answer everyone. I usually focus on only 3 new men each week . I message talk on phone and meet them . Keep trying I personally go for thr men who live closest to me
Because you’re a guy.
Sorry bro. That’s OLD dating for most guys. There’s nothing you can do. There’s no fix or guarantee. All you can do is try not to be too discouraged and not give up. It happens to almost all of us. It’s frustrating as hell but that’s OLD dating life 🤷🏾♂️
Dating apps can be brutal, but unfortunately most women have like 100+ matches if you don’t say something super interesting from the gate you’re not going to keep our attention
It’s not ghosting if you’ve never met and only have messaged on a dating app.
Same thing happens to me as a woman. The men I match with or the ones we are exchanging messages just up and disappear. It’s tiresome.
Back in the day they’d call it just not getting the date ghosting may not be the right word.
Take a look at what you said or more importantly didnt say in the opening moments. Remember You can do anything you want to someone but you can never bore them.