Hello, new the reddit world but my wife and I have been married 10 years. We have a fantastic relationship and love each other very much. The other day I had a dream that we introduced a third person into our sex life. I woke up fully erect and thinking about if this was something I was truly interested in. I brought it up to my wife that the idea of her being pleasured by other persons was really a turn on. I told her the idea of her experiencing sexual pleasure from another man or woman while I watch is so hot. But we have only been with each other and have no idea how to even act upon this desire. Any help/suggestions?

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  1. This is a great start to what may hopefully be a great life change for you both! My hub and I have been together 15years and have forayed into this quite a bit in that time. I highly recommend SLS as a great online resource for meeting like minded individuals if your interested. Communication is the 1000% most important thing before starting anything like this. Make sure you both outline anything that would be ok with you both and not ok with either or both of you if it were to happen in a irl situation. That being said we have done 3 somes and 4 somes (meeting with another couple) we only play for the novelty for use it’s not a poly relationship aspect, but that is also another thing ti question for your own journey. Hope you enjoy the ride. Watching is great being shared is better.😈

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