Hi, I am 24F. I met a guy in an app and he’s 34, Turkish.
Not to stereotype turkish guys but I met a lot of them who had hookups/ short term relationships etc. But this one’s different, after we had sex, he told me that I’m the third woman in his life that he had sex with. First was his then wife, but they divorced in 2020, and second is his “ex girlfriend” after that divorce. It was kinda weird for me that he was THAT serious on relationships.
The problem began after the sex, when he was saying things like “I felt so dirty that it happened”, “I won’t do that kind of thing again,” and “I regret it”. As a woman, I felt bad and I was honestly hurt. Though he said that it is nothing to do about me, it still touched a nerve and it made me reflect my actions too. Though, I am also confused because he’s still messaging me, updating me, and meeting up with me again.
I don’t know what to do, should I still continue talking with him? I am interested but his beliefs on intimacy make me think about it