Ever since my wife and I were just friends in high school, before even dating, she was never wrong if I was involved.

Here is the list of immediate options when something goes wrong…
\- It’s entirely my fault
\- It’s mostly my fault
\- It’s half my fault

The following options either cannot exist or only exist after conversation and work and coaxing…
\- It’s mostly her fault
\- It’s entirely her fault

I have probably heard “I’m sorry” five times in two and a half decades and zero of then unprompted. She just cannot do it.

Anyone else married to this kind of thing?

>!(This is not a serious post. This is not a big deal. This is triggered by a silly event yesterday where she was basically bullied by our kids into finally owning fault for something that was clearly her fault while I roared with laughter at her discomfort. We were laughing at and with each other loudly along with our kids by the end of it. It’s all good.!<

>!I have always known this about her. She’s amazing and I love her deeply and she rocks.)!<

2 comments
  1. That she’s able to recognize the tendency and laugh about it is a big important factor. If it was a very serious refusal to every go any way but her own I’d be asking how you lasted this long.

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