Do you enjoy when your partner spoil you? Like a spa day or massaging your back? Not just from your partner but from you female friends or little sister who likes to play spa day.

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1. I would like that

2. I guess I’d like that, but I’d like a gift that cost the same money even more.

3. That’s…not really my idea of being spoiled, I guess. I’m not comfortable being pampered or fawned over.

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5. Hell yea. I love getting pampered and spoiled. Only from my gf tho. I love getting my back and my ego rubbed.

6. Spoil yes. Spa/massage no. My idea of spoiling is you take me out to a concert, comedy show, or even just buy me shit for home like some video games.

7. I’m not much on being “spoiled”, and certainly don’t want a spa day or massage…I have no need for either of those things.

   I don’t even like to get gifts, as it’s exceedingly rare that anyone can get med something that I actually like… If it’s something I actually like, then I’ve probably already bought it for myself. Everyone who knows me, even a little bit, knows not to get me gifts no matter the occasion.

8. Not really no. I don’t enjoy being the center of attention and really hate being pampered by sycophantic types with their hands out who only play nice until the money runs dry.

   My ex used to do things like organise big extended family gatherings for my bday which sounds nice in theory but she new full well I hated it and wouldn’t listen to anything I actually wanted. Mostly ended up shoving down my throat what she expected me to do for her instead.

   Actually there’s was one year she bought me a jetski hire package that was a blast as I had my kids on board with me. I LOVED that one