throwaway as concerned girlfriend will see.
Have had 7 previous partners and none get off the way she does. She’s not interested in any kind of thrusting motion or movement, when I penetrate, she just clamps on and kind of shakes and vibrates and she can cum that way very quickly. Sometimes I get off this way as well as it feels good since I can feel her twitching and pulsing, but I would like to have more normal sex as well sometimes. She doesn’t mind if I do what I need to but I’d rather she enjoyed it and she admits that thrusting doesn’t give her any pleasure. Can anyone relate and are there any ways I can make regular sex work more for her? Are there other women that feel this way as well?
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I get off the same way as your girlfriend haha, i just want him to put it in and let me squeeze it until i cum, i do like thrusting but it doesnt get me off the same way.
If shes not telling you that she wants you to stop doing the normal in out thing as well then she probably doesnt!! Its ok that different things get you off, you can do both together. I get pleasure psychologically from things that get my partner off even if they dont get me off that much physically.
Another thing to maybe play around with and see if you both like is penetration but doing it really slowly and with more grinding as well as in/out
Try thrusting slooooowwwwwllyyy while she squeezes, like get her to squeeze before you’re even inside of her so you have to work to get into her, then once she orgasms increase the tempo 🥵
i am female and masturbate to sex of this “trembling” way too
Thrusting does give some pleasure. Just not as much. It’s very carnal and intimate to just have physically someone totally bonded deeply in/on you.
Get a vibratos and hold it on her clit. Bing bong
wait i want to learn how to cum this way teach meee
Let her get her nut first, then do it “normally” afterwards
How long have you been together? Does she have multiple orgasms and how long does it take after this one before the next?
My wife came this way one time, but not bear hug and tremble. She was on her back on the bed with her hips dipping slightly off the bed when I entered her and just pushed deep and held while holding her legs with my hands. After about 5-10 seconds her hips were moving up and down uncontrollably and she was moaning so loud it was hot.
The answer might be to not change her but to change your thinking towards enjoying this. It sounds like she’s willing to please you so have her get good at stroking you with her hand and mouth until you’re close and then shove it in deep and let her finish both of you.
Or can she ride you until you’re close and then push down all the way and work her magic to get both of you at once? Have her do as many squats as she can every other day until she has thighs like an aerobics instructor.
Isn’t it her business how she comes?
Shouldn’t you be grateful that she’s able to come with you instead of complaining that she don’t come the way you want her to come.
My gf doesn’t come the way I want her to come!
Does that not sound selfish?