so i basically only masturbate to satisfy myself whenever i get turned on, i don’t date/do hookups etc, so there’s no other person involved. but i’m getting kinda tired of just laying there on my back and using my vibrator until i come. my current method is playing porn while i use my vibrator and just doing it that way, but what are some other ways i could change it up? it’s getting to the point where i do it out of boredom and not actual enjoyment at this point unfortunately 😕 i miss when i first started and i would moan and enjoy myself and it just doesn’t do it anymore. i also can’t use a dildo because i’m pretty sure i have vaginismus and therefore can’t put anything in larger than a finger and even then it’s uncomfortable. what are some other methods i maybe don’t know about? thank you!
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Try sexting!
Well I have different anatomy but I have a bunch of different ways I masturbate. I used to just always jerk off. For me, that’s pretty much just watching porn and jerking my dick to cum as quickly as possible. It can be super quick. But it was boring to me and now most times I make more of an event out of my masturbation. I put on porn, but often I’ll start with softer stuff. I’ll lube up and stroke slowly, edging, which is working myself close to orgasm and keeping myself there without cumming. I’ll sometimes set a timer and make a game out of it because I know that when I hold out for longer my orgasms are more intense. I’m also into sexting and stuff so sometimes I’ll have someone watch or we will mutually masturbate on FaceTime. I have different toys I use and I generally try to mix it up.
So I read what you said about penetration and obviously things aren’t exactly the same for us but maybe some of that gave you ideas?
There are lots of different toys out there. You could also try taking it out into the world so there’s a feeling of excitement. Like In your car or an elevator lol
Have you tried to find a boyfriend who will give you oral sex? That could be a very pleasant experience for you. And many guys like giving their lady oral sex.
Get a briggs & Stratton motor, and a cucumber. 😂
Sticking a finger or buttplug up your ass while you masturbate might help to spice it up. Makes it feel way more intense for me.