ive never been able to and attribute this to maybe partners being a little selfish or not patient. or maybe the chemistry isn’t there? or maybe there’s something wrong with me?
recently i met this awesome guy and i really want to be able to finish with him. im able to do it on my own but i haaave to be watching porn and really zoned out, which i can’t seem to do when im with a guy. do any ladies here have tips on mindset or something?
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not a lady, but may want to try:
* watching the porn with him
* the exposure method:
* masturbating with him in the room watching, taking notes
* masturbating with him present, and you touching yourself with his hand on yours
* switch it, he’s touching you, your hand guiding
* him doing it all
* I can’t say use these to excess, but these can get you to zone out
* a glass of wine prior to sex
* cannabis products, gummies or lube even
* mushrooms