I live in a country where the guys who get attractive girls always got that bad boy look. THey usually dress very fashionable, look like rappers (im black so i compare myself to other guys like me), get dreads tattoos hit gym, overall this bad boy esque look. Ive always had a lot more homely, traditional look i dont get any cool hairstyles i dont dress a certain way i dont drink nor smoke or do drugs.
ANd its made dating a lot tougher. But those guys tend to do well in those departments cause women who tend to be insanely attractive are into drugs and guys who look like bad boys or criminals here where I live its making me consider if i should retain being this plain or switching things up exploring drugs in order to increase my chances with these very attractive types of women…
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I say don’t change and go for women who appreciate the more homely and traditional look 🤔
Jesus Christ no don’t do that.
But u should hit the gym and be fit etc. that doesn’t mean u should do drugs to get women. Why on earth would u want a woman who wants a guy who does drugs?
First of all, how attractive does a woman need to be in order for you to be interested in attracting her?
Don’t answer. You’re chasing the wrong things.
Just like the guys with all the right clothes and the right hair and the right attitude.
Don’t compare yourself to other people. And don’t change for other people. Or get involved with drugs to meet people.
What’s your style? What do you like? What do you want to spend your time on (besides women)?
If you want to attract women, the best way is to be confident in being yourself. The best way to do that: have something going on. They want to know what you’re about.
I’m confused. You want to attract drug addicts?