Hi Reddit. Earlier today I got invited to attend a sex party from a couple that I had chatted with a bit. I’ve never done something like this and I guess I’m a little nervous about what to expect.
A little info about me: I’m a straight male entering my mid 20s (I would be attending this party as a single male). Most of what I have done in the past has been exclusively vanilla, but I’ve had a desire to explore some fantasies I think I’d be into more (for example, being a switch, massage, bondage, anal, the usage of toys, etc.). I’m a little uncomfortable with the idea of a threesome or an orgy in real life, but I‘ve never tried so it’s hard for me to have a hard stance on it. This party also costs money, but I don’t see that being an issue.
Based on the info I’ve provided, and what you know about sex parties, is this something I should consider attending? Is there such thing as being scammed in this sort of way? I look forward to all of your replies!
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It is also worth noting that I’m open to any information, including people who haven’t been to one.
weve been to them, as well as hosted them. if youre not open to the idea of what youll see there, or be invited to do, dont go. if you are, then go for the experience. theres no one tjat will force you to do anything you dont want to do, so go in with an open mimd and have fun
Years ago, an ex of mine and I attended a party posted on Craigslist (back when they had personals) and it was one of the BEST experiences ever. Watching her get fucked by 2 of the other guys was just so hot.