So I was pretty lonely little over a decade ago. I wanted help finding someone but the only advice I could get was to work on myself.
I took the advice to heat best I could. I focused on my schooling/career and got my health inorder. I found a therapist and I’ve been seeing him for over 5 years.
I recently had an amazing month. I got a raise at my job and now I’m making more than I ever expected. I just won 3rd at a regatta and my teammates all went out to celebrate.
My therapist seems keen on avoiding the topic of dating during our sessions. I think he thinks I’m fragile and I’ll ruin what I got going if I pay it too much mind.
After a night out everyone either went home to their partners or found someone so I walked home alone. I was tipsy so I got too emotional and I kinda feel like I’m in the same place I was a decade ago.
Do I have to wait another decade? Did I not do the right work? Why do I feel like such a failure?
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Idk about your whole situation, so I’ll give you some advices based on my experience
1. Find a girl who loves the same things as you, as she will be easier to talk to
2. Don’t befriend her for too long, 2-3 months and you confess your love to her. She might see you only as a friend if you take it too long
3. Just think of girls as normal people, who have the same idea of love too. If you’re not scare then you’ll be smooth at flirting