Yesterday my wife and I had sex after almost 2 weeks. It was great. We managed to get some time alone from the kids and had sex. It was great. Best blowjob in a long time. We both orgasmed and we’re happy. At least so I thought.
In the evening she wanted to go again. The thing is for me I have a difficult time going twice a day. It’s not impossible but i am one and done guy. I love going down on my wife and use my hands as long as I don’t have to feel the pressure of getting hard. Sadly that pressure is ever present due to my wife having felt bad when I don’t get hard which in turn is my own fault because of my porn addiction which I am working on(7 months without watching porn although it’s been close).
So we start having sex and at first I could just focus on her without pressure. I did get hard and that’s when she wanted to do anal. I love anal but not on the second round. I mean I like it but I love orgasming and for a second round it has to be pretty intense for me to orgasm.
And I just couldn’t and after some time she didn’t want to continue. She didn’t even want to get off herself. And it just makes me feel bad. I think that she mostly wanted to do anal because she felt bad herself. She asked if I had watched porn which I said no to. I have never gotten caught but have been honest about it.
I feel bad. I love anal but I hate the pressure of having to be hard and orgasming. I have such a difficult time to relax. I feel like I failed her.
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Book a urology appointment and just show up to it.
How old are you both and how long have you been married?
You sound open, so I will go there. You are willing to please her with toys and such, so round two starts there. Do your thing. Round two for your pleasure maybe try some anal, on you. If you both are open to it, pegging is a different experience with role reversal and total mind fuck. You likely won’t get/stay hard, I struggle maintaining hard in this act, but have came from very little penile touch during while being pegged. Or I don’t, and it is still an act of pleasure. Lastly, if you are spent and cannot cum, oh well. Cuddle the hell out of her.
Get viagra. You’ll have no problems going twice in a day.
Why are there so many anal threads? Its not some magical sexual experience that transcends regular sex, it just feels slightly different. It’s not even better different, it’s just different.
It’s also no fun at all unless your SO is into it.
You sound perfectly normal! A very thoughtful and attentive lover