My relationship of 6 years broke down last night. I’m completely broken and always saw my further with this man. He was really confused and incoherent. He just said he didn’t feel any love anymore for me. The feelings had gone. I said well I will always love you. He said he couldn’t return that. I said it felt like a rough patch he disagreed and said it’s all gone.
We spoke here and there since but nothing like we had before.
He’s agreed to meet me on the weekend but I don’t know if that’ll help. Deep down so many have said to give him time as he’s been going through his own internal struggle and it’s all sounding like depression to me and all signs point that way but he won’t admit it.
We’ve agreed to meet up tomorrow. He would have to But a part of me just doesn’t know if it’s worth it. Not sure why he’s drive for 2 hours just to talk about what we already said. He said it’s over for him.
Tldr: partner and I split. I’m doing my best to be normal. But it feels like my world is broken.
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same thing happened to me these last few days and he just kept changing his mind, asking to meet up to dump me, ask me to come back and try it again, to finally dump me one last time over the phone. i’m telling you now, believe what he says the first time. if he says hes lost feelings (mine said the same thing) then you believe him and move forward. it sounds like you’re worrying a lot about him and he hasn’t even given you the grace of a clean cut. it’s not fair for him to come back after saying that to you, don’t let him!